George and Lana Keamo on Why They Became Foster Parents Through Hale Kipa’s Transitional Family Homes Program
George and Lana Keamo have fostered two teen boys through the Hale Kipa Transitional Family Homes (TFH) program. There have been many, many poignant aspects of their experience, such as the young men’s deep appreciation for things that others take for granted, like a bedroom with a bed to sleep in.
“There are so many kids out there who don’t have anything and then you bring them into your home and the littlest things excite them,” Lana said.
But what made the biggest impression on George was when he asked the boys if they would like to call him “uncle”, “foster dad” or “dad.” And without hesitation, both immediately said, “I’ll call you dad.”
“It really hit, you know?” he said. So, from day one, both boys referred to George and Lana as mom and dad.
With their parents and grandparents as role models, the Waianae couple already had two decades of experience as a Hānai (informal adoptive) family for local children and teens before they became foster parents through Hale Kipa’s Transitional Family Homes (TFH) program.
As the pastor and co-pastor of a church, the couple has dedicated their careers and lives to helping others. When they heard about the TFH program, they knew it was a natural fit.
The extensive background check for parents as well as TFH’s selectivity and efforts to pair the youth with the right home, were key factors in their decision to participate. They have been equally impressed by the incredibly hands-on approach taken by the program staff, including frequent visits by TFH Clinical Program Manager Gregory Spangler.
George and Lana believe there’s a misconception that teens who are “at-risk,” are disrespectful. But their experience couldn’t be more different.
“These teens want the same things a nine-year-old wants,” Lana said. “They want time, they want structure, they want to know that they’re loved and cared for. When you provide that type of stability for them, they are respectful, they are grateful, and they are appreciative.”
When told how fortunate these young people are to have their support, Lana quickly replied: “We’re the lucky ones.”
“If you have what it takes to take care of these kids, open up your heart and your home,” she added. “We look at it as a privilege and an honor that we were chosen to be a part of it.”
